How to deal with BF family?
Even though my mom and dad are divorced, we all still spend holidays togeather and it always goes great. This year my mom went to see my Aunt in Texas for thanksgiving and so my BF's parents said that my dad and I could come to thier house. My dad is retierd, but had worked at a good factory for over 30 years after he got out of Vietnam. Things where going well until i overheard something. His mom and dad went into the kitchen to get some pie. After a few min i was going into there to help them out. when i was about to open the kitchen door i heard this " Her dad is nice, but frankly i think his family is not good enough" I ran back to the table, told my dad i was not feeling so well and we left. I did not tell my dad what they said because i did not want to hurt him. However i did tell my BF and he got mad at ME for spying on his parents. I tried to explain that i simply overheard what was said. I want to talk to his parents and give them a piece of my mind. should i?
I can't believe they said that...
And as for your bf being mad at you... you can't help that his parents have big annoying mouths!!
Don't you worry about them...they are just wanting to have the best for their son like every mom and dad, except they always think that he/she can find better... when the son is already happy.
My MILand FIL said the same thing about me... wanting me to be a diff race.. after about a year, they loved me and talked about how good i was for him and how nice i am...
They are just making judgements right now, they dont fully know you yet.
BTW, i think it was good of you to not tell your father...
I don't think you should say anything to his parents, it will make them look at you in a worse light. and it will cause trouble for you and your man.
and dont blame what they said on your bf... forget it and move on, besides, you probably think the same as they do right now, 'that they are not a good enough family for you' right? lol
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